it is a mistake compare men and women
This flash movie has caused alot of debate,
over such a simple issue.
women will never understand men,
and men will never understand women.
it's as simple as that. the inherant differences in brain chemestry, societal upbringing, and thought process makes each sex trying to understand each difficult.
the main problem lies in the two sex determenant hormones, testosterone and estrogen.
unfortunately for us all, testostorone is directly linked to logical thought, while estrogen is directly linked to subconsious instictual/emotional thought. both sexes have a little of both, but men try to use logic on female behavior (pointless) and rationalize subconsious insticts, making understanding men difficult. especially because of the constantly changing hormone levels.
the point is, don't bitch about the other sex, just accept it.
women often find certain characteristics in men attractive, before a serious relationship is formed, thus the "asshole" problem. it's generally not their fault, insticts play a large role. women think as thus (instict/emotion -> rationalization of instict -> action) in many situations. accept it.
James E. Phd Psychology